What would you rate this woman?

[JasonStatham]

I don't know if I get it

P.S. there's plenty of 40 year olds I'd love to bang right now, never mind when I'm in my 40's. Not that I think the statement is true that it gets any easier to pull milfs because you're bald and older yourself, if anyone has ever talked to hairblues about her plethora of online middle aged (or younger) Chad options.

Of course, they are good looking "older" women out there. I wasn't denying that. Maybe it was confusing.

My point I try to make is: I would be depressed if I never had the ability to get a young woman . It doesn't matter if that's in your 20s or when you 50, but if you simply never had access to it, it's very sad and I'm sure, there would be a burning desire inside of you, that never really stops. (or until your libido is gone).

Let's say you are 40 and you had plenty of action when you were younger with innocent feminine young girls, you shouldn't complain if you now "only get women your age" (not implying they are bad looking).

In the German hair loss forum, guys in their 40s and up, telling young new users on the impact section, they should just "hang on" and wait until they are older, so they can date 35+ and up women. You basically get the used up version and if you are Black Pilled, you know that this very woman would not have given you a chance when you approached them with your balding head in your 20s. And that very reason would depress me.
To be with a woman, that would have turned me down at some point in her life because I wasn't in her "league"

[Rudiger]

Of course, they are good looking "older" women out there. I wasn't denying that. Maybe it was confusing.

My point I try to make is: I would be depressed if I never had the ability to get a young woman . It doesn't matter if that's in your 20s or when you 50, but if you simply never had access to it, it's very sad and I'm sure, there would be a burning desire inside of you, that never really stops. (or until your libido is gone).

Let's say you are 40 and you had plenty of action when you were younger with innocent feminine young girls, you shouldn't complain if you now "only get women your age" (not implying they are bad looking).

In the German hair loss forum, guys in their 40s and up, telling young new users on the impact section, they should just "hang on" and wait until they are older, so they can date 35+ and up women. You basically get the used up version and if you are Black Pilled, you know that this very woman would not have given you a chance when you approached them with your balding head in your 20s. And that very reason would depress me.
To be with a woman, that would have turned me down at some point in her life because I wasn't in her "league"

Hmm yeah ok I kinda get it, but you're looking at it from the perspective of someone who has regularly dated and had sex. If you made it to your 40's with very little of it, you'd be thirsty as fuck and grateful for anything. That's why fat bald British ex-pats look so content with their (usually rather ugly and malnourished) Thai brides who have bodies like 11 year old boys.

But it's depressing guys are peddling that, because I bet they are full of shit, and the younger generation they are preaching to are going to wait 2 decades to find out- nope, it's still either bust a nut alone or take my 6 grand of savings and bang my horrendous Thai bride in an utterly loveless relationship.

[koolaidshade]

Of course, they are good looking "older" women out there. I wasn't denying that. Maybe it was confusing.

My point I try to make is: I would be depressed if I never had the ability to get a young woman . It doesn't matter if that's in your 20s or when you 50, but if you simply never had access to it, it's very sad and I'm sure, there would be a burning desire inside of you, that never really stops. (or until your libido is gone).

Let's say you are 40 and you had plenty of action when you were younger with innocent feminine young girls, you shouldn't complain if you now "only get women your age" (not implying they are bad looking).

In the German hair loss forum, guys in their 40s and up, telling young new users on the impact section, they should just "hang on" and wait until they are older, so they can date 35+ and up women. You basically get the used up version and if you are Black Pilled, you know that this very woman would not have given you a chance when you approached them with your balding head in your 20s. And that very reason would depress me.
To be with a woman, that would have turned me down at some point in her life because I wasn't in her "league"

Legit. Obviously, if a 40 year old woman is hot now, she's even hotter back in her prime. All this "men age like fine wine" and "your smv increases when u get older" and "girls go for older guys all the time, moreso than guys their age" is just a mix of coping mechanisms and wishful thinking.

[Rudiger]

Being middle aged and having a young girl wanting to hook up with you:

Pros: she's probably an emotional fucking mess who got molested OR she plans on raiding your pension fund.

Cons: even worse than the pros

[koolaidshade]

Being middle aged and having a young girl wanting to hook up with you:

Pros: she's probably an emotional fucking mess who got molested OR she plans on raiding your pension fund.

Cons: even worse than the pros

Rudiger, what awaits us in middle age then? What is your definition or age range of middle age?

[Rudiger]

Rudiger, what awaits us in middle age then? What is your definition or age range of middle age?

Huh why am I supposed to know? What's with the shocked face?

Do you think being like 43, and being with a 21 year old is the sweet life? Maybe in some very rare instances there could be genuine love (without the girl just playing in to her daddy issues), but most likely it will come down to a lot of wealth, and maybe some men are fine with that, I wouldn't be.

If you want my ideal version of middle age- basically being with a girl 5-10 years younger than you, and I'd think a decade gap would be about the sort of typical maximum that she isn't just with you for some weird ulterior motive.

There's always going to be well balanced females who just like and grow to love someone who happens to be older, but no it doesn't really make sense. If you have grey chest hair you have to wonder why she wouldn't choose some young muscular dude in college.

[koolaidshade]

Huh why am I supposed to know? What's with the shocked face?

Do you think being like 43, and being with a 21 year old is the sweet life? Maybe in some very rare instances there could be genuine love (without the girl just playing in to her daddy issues), but most likely it will come down to a lot of wealth, and maybe some men are fine with that, I wouldn't be.

If you want my ideal version of middle age- basically being with a girl 5-10 years younger than you, and I'd think a decade gap would be about the sort of typical maximum that she isn't just with you for some weird ulterior motive.

There's always going to be well balanced females who just like and grow to love someone who happens to be older, but no it doesn't really make sense. If you have grey chest hair you have to wonder why she wouldn't choose some young muscular dude in college.

meant to put a scared face.

i've just found that dating/hanging out with girls 18-22 to be a lot better for many reasons. They're less bitter and more fun to be around. They don't expect you to be far ahead in your career or not live with your parents, though those arent problems for me anymore. Granted i would date girls that are mid 20's and older if they showed interest, but like most girls that show interest in me, I don't really find attractive

[kj6723]

Is it odd that I experience massive sexual attraction to my 38 year old supervisor at work?

Most guys in here would not find her hot, and would probably rate her like 5.5/10. But something about her smile and feminine mannerisms literally give me a chub sometimes when I’m talking with her

[Afro_Vacancy]

Is it odd that I experience massive sexual attraction to my 38 year old supervisor at work?

Most guys in here would not find her hot, and would probably rate her like 5.5/10. But something about her smile and feminine mannerisms literally give me a chub sometimes when I’m talking with her

You might be turned on by the fact that she's your boss.

[kj6723]

You might be turned on by the fact that she's your boss.

I don't know, I think it's more than that. She's got this really feminine way about her that gets my dick hard literally just from conversing with her. I've jerked off to thoughts of her a few times

I've had women in charge of me before, better looking, who did not have this kind of impact

[JasonStatham]

Being middle aged and having a young girl wanting to hook up with you:

Pros: she's probably an emotional fucking mess who got molested OR she plans on raiding your pension fund.

Cons: even worse than the pros

That's also a fair point. Let's say you couldn't get anything when you were younger, and you go the "MGTOW" way and get a career going not because it's your passion, but you want to have as much money and status as possible to fuck pussy. That's what they tell you, right?

So you are in your 40s and you set your Tinder Profil to 18-25. I'm sure you will find quality girls

[EvilLocks]

Is it odd that I experience massive sexual attraction to my 38 year old supervisor at work?

Most guys in here would not find her hot, and would probably rate her like 5.5/10. But something about her smile and feminine mannerisms literally give me a chub sometimes when I’m talking with her

Older women can be hot. Emphasis on CAN. With good genetics + healthy lifestyle + money the looks can go on for years. However, like someone said, a hot older woman will have been even hotter in her youth. And exception being Kate Beckinsale, I actually think she looked prettier after 30 than she did before, and now at 45 is still someone I would call smoking' which is super rare for me to say about a woman past 35.
And like people say here, it is hard for a 40+ year old man to have a meaningful relationship with someone half their age. Yeah, it can happen, but most likely it will be about fulfilling the sexual needs before anything else.
I have lived it myself, when I spent years on-and-off with a man 15 years older from the age of 17. Now he has FINALLY settled down, with someone even older than himself. He seems happy enough I am sure he still has his moments where he looks at young women and think ''damn I'd love to f-ck her" or watch teen porn on the regular, but at the same time he's with someone more equal to him mentally and I think he is happy with her.

[CaptainForehead]

Bledel often gets cited as "ageing badly" and I was going to reply with this as well, because yes there's a lot of late 30's or 40's Hollywood women who look literally 25, but Bledel doesn't look bad at all for 37.

The thing is that at 32 she still literally looked like 19, so at the first sign of ageing (which I can literally only see around the mouth area, and oddly around the temples, not so much in that picture though) it feels more like a shock.

This. Also I wasn't criticizing her, more lamenting the aging process.

It's jarring to see her go from looking like 19 to 40 in such a short period of time.

She used to say in her interviews that she would get mistaken for a high school girl if she went without makeup.

[Pat]

Of course, they are good looking "older" women out there. I wasn't denying that. Maybe it was confusing.

My point I try to make is: I would be depressed if I never had the ability to get a young woman . It doesn't matter if that's in your 20s or when you 50, but if you simply never had access to it, it's very sad and I'm sure, there would be a burning desire inside of you, that never really stops. (or until your libido is gone).

Let's say you are 40 and you had plenty of action when you were younger with innocent feminine young girls, you shouldn't complain if you now "only get women your age" (not implying they are bad looking).

In the German hair loss forum, guys in their 40s and up, telling young new users on the impact section, they should just "hang on" and wait until they are older, so they can date 35+ and up women. You basically get the used up version and if you are Black Pilled, you know that this very woman would not have given you a chance when you approached them with your balding head in your 20s. And that very reason would depress me.
To be with a woman, that would have turned me down at some point in her life because I wasn't in her "league"

"Just wait till your 40 and used up single moms will be thirsty for the wealth you've spent your youth accumulating while she was sucking Tyrones donger!"
It's over once you realise you'll never have this.

[JasonStatham]

"Just wait till your 40 and used up single moms will be thirsty for the wealth you've spent your youth accumulating while she was sucking Tyrones donger!"
It's over once you realise you'll never have this.