Afro_Vacancy wrote: ↑
10 months ago
Congratulations on the engagement !
I'm getting married in less than a month now so getting a bit nervous-excited lol
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koolaidshade wrote: ↑
10 months ago
What if they looked around your age but were a lot older?
That's extremely rare if not impossible to be 20+ years older than someone but look the same age. Even if someone stays fit, has good skin, dresses well etc. they have this certain maturity about their appearance that someone <20+yrs would not have. Also it's not just about looks for me, it's also about where a person is at in life. Someone 30yrs older would be at a completely different stage in life, and their health could possibly start to decline in just a few years. If I married someone 30yrs older, I would likely be a widow for the last 30yrs of my life.
If George Clooney wanted a one night stand with me (if I were single, of course!), would I say no? Probably not. But would I start a relationship with a man that age? No way.
My take is that a lot of girls/women like older men, but most girls/women don't like old men (unless they are old themselves). Most have an age range they roughly stick to, but of course there are exceptions.
Edit: I also wanted to include, what is ''old'' to a person depends on their age. "Old" to me is someone in their 50s and beyond (I'm 26), while "old" to someone who's 18 is probably a lot less than that.