Arjen wrote: ↑
5 months ago
he's been with his now fiancée for 9 years, he cheats on her left and right with 5s and 6s, but here it comes: he had a severe crush on ONE of the women he got to fuck, he even flew to a city in the hope of seeing her again, but it never happened. By the way, she's an 8...what a coincidence, huh?
That's an archetypal Chad story, my cousin used to be an über-Chad (though he was tall, so he couldn't move very fast) and yeah, he was dating multiple girls, some of them stunning, some of them less and he was having quite a good time doing it, some of them would threaten suicide so he would stay with them and he would laugh it off. One day, he falls in love with one of them and gets into a deep depression because of it. He couldn't make sense of what had happened.
I really felt sorry for him during that period, even though I was in a much darker place than him with my own hair loss, depression and anxiety problems. The poor guy got lost in his ocean of options, but I have to say that in the end, he found the light and is now married (to a 7/10 girl), faithful (as far as I can tell) and with two lovely kids.
Anyway, Arjen, just to add to your frustration, an ocean of options is not necessarily paradise, you want at least some constraints in your life. "Yeah but if I only had that option, I'd make the best of it and just get a nice girlfriend!" Yeah yeah yeah, sure, I was almost burning like a vampire in the sun when I realized I'd have to give up my "fucking around" lifestyle to become exclusive with my fiancée.
Usually, the problem with people who have that redpilltalk/lookism/incel mentality is that their goal is to live some hedonistic lifestyle where they're fucking models, having pool parties and getting 1k likes on Instagram all the time. To them, that's heaven and if you question that, you're a coping blue-pilled cuck. Yeah that's heaven alright, for a couple of months, maybe? Then what?
It doesn't seem like you have that problem though, you want a serious girlfriend that you find pretty enough, right? I'm not saying it's goint to be easy but it's surely more realistic than the Instagram male model lifestyle.