When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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@Admin mentioned fawning over girls somewhere, and this reminds me of many observations of the office: it may be sad getting no action and seemingly fawn over women, but there is nothing worse in my eyes than being in a relationship (even with wife and kids) and THEN fawn over and lust after women. I never want to be that guy. Never.
Hahaha... Marriage will not stop a man from fawning over a beautiful woman, as all men, married or not, have crushes.

I guess only extroverted men will publicly expose these feelings by fawning and flirting. The others just keep it a secret.
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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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blackg wrote:
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Hahaha... Marriage will not stop a man from fawning over a beautiful woman, as all men, married or not, have crushes.

I guess only extroverted men will publicly expose these feelings by fawning and flirting. The others just keep it a secret.
I knew that sentence was going to make me sound holier than the Pope or at least idealistic and naïve, but well, that’s me. @Admin will laugh at me for implicitly saying that there is that “I’ve made it moment”, but o be frank, I find that whole chasing a hassle, to I’d be glad to withdraw my participation in the competition, knowing I have a nice girl at home instead of grabbing each pseudo-opportunity to go after the next young female employee. I see (also good looking guys) living that spectator-role relaxedly, I also buy it from Fred.

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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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blackg wrote:
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Hahaha... Marriage will not stop a man from fawning over a beautiful woman, as all men, married or not, have crushes.

I guess only extroverted men will publicly expose these feelings by fawning and flirting. The others just keep it a secret.
The broken clock that is cuckg is right on this, of course everyone fawns over other people every now and then, there's no getting away from that, even if I find my fiancée hot, of course I'll have those moments looking at other girls. And twelve hours ago, when blackg was right again, he also said that you get used to even the most beautiful faces.

It's like listening to the piece of music you love so much for the 50th time in a row, and it's that one time too much, you'll be sick of it, but of course, when it comes to art, we can move on to other things. Not with your partner though, and no matter how beautiful she is, you'll get bored of her model face at a point.

It's too superficial an aspect to be focusing on it too much. You're contemplating reaching a place that doesn't exist Arjen, the place where the problem of problems goes away, that's not going to happen.
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Admin will laugh at me for implicitly saying that there is that “I’ve made it moment”
Yes, except this time it's a place :p.

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The broken clock that is cuckg is right on this, of course everyone fawns over other people every now and then, there's no getting away from that, even if I find my fiancée hot, of course I'll have those moments looking at other girls. And twelve hours ago, when blackg was right again, he also said that you get used to even the most beautiful faces.

It's like listening to the piece of music you love so much for the 50th time in a row, and it's that one time too much, you'll be sick of it, but of course, when it comes to art, we can move on to other things. Not with your partner though, and no matter how beautiful she is, you'll get bored of her model face at a point.

It's too superficial an aspect to be focusing on it too much. You're contemplating reaching a place that doesn't exist Arjen, the place where the problem of problems goes away, that's not going to happen.



Yes, except this time it's a place :p.
I think we agree and it's probably more a question of manners and nature. Of course I'd get used to a pretty face, of course I'd find others (more) attractive, and sure I'd be flattered if any of them were to show signs they like me or something, but I'd never feel the desire actively lust after them just because my partner is not watching me - and I'd never cheat, even if glorious opportunities presented themselves - out of principle, but also because I know my ego has just been boosted and that is all I'll need, as I have a woman at home I find attractive.

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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

Post by JasonStatham » 8 months ago

Arjen wrote:
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I think we agree and it's probably more a question of manners and nature. Of course I'd get used to a pretty face, of course I'd find others (more) attractive, and sure I'd be flattered if any of them were to show signs they like me or something, but I'd never feel the desire actively lust after them just because my partner is not watching me - and I'd never cheat, even if glorious opportunities presented themselves - out of principle, but also because I know my ego has just been boosted and that is all I'll need, as I have a woman at home I find attractive.
I had a girlfriend in the 5ish borderline 6 bracket and I looked at every pretty girl I saw in the streets and thought: "Why can't I have one of those?" It's a horrible feeling. When I had a very good looking girlfriend, I still looked at other women here and there, but it was in a more healthier way. More like: "Damn she is hot" and a minute later, she is out of my mind. I'm very sure that A LOT of men (and women) are in a relationship or married, and have the same "regret" feeling or this "lust" after a prettier partner. That doesn't mean you don't love your partner, but the physical part is just not enough for you which sooner or later, will bring you into the arms of another woman and than you are a filthy cheater. To be honest, I don't know how a guy can be sexually attracted to his wife for 10 years plus. I simply don't know.

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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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I had a girlfriend in the 5ish borderline 6 bracket and I looked at every pretty girl I saw in the streets and thought: "Why can't I have one of those?" It's a horrible feeling. When I had a very good looking girlfriend, I still looked at other women here and there, but it was in a more healthier way. More like: "Damn she is hot" and a minute later, she is out of my mind. I'm very sure that A LOT of men (and women) are in a relationship or married, and have the same "regret" feeling or this "lust" after a prettier partner. That doesn't mean you don't love your partner, but the physical part is just not enough for you which sooner or later, will bring you into the arms of another woman and than you are a filthy cheater. To be honest, I don't know how a guy can be sexually attracted to his wife for 10 years plus. I simply don't know.
This is what I mean. As for the 10 years, I cannot know for sure obviously, but I'd to think I'm different in as that I'd feed on the years leading up to it, generating additional and important loyalty.

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JasonStatham wrote:
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To be honest, I don't know how a guy can be sexually attracted to his wife for 10 years plus. I simply don't know.
Mind altering drugs help.
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Arjen wrote:
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I'd never cheat, even if glorious opportunities presented themselves - out of principle, but also because I know my ego has just been boosted and that is all I'll need, as I have a woman at home I find attractive.
Ahhhh, the naivety of youth. Let my tell ya...

You can have the perfect marriage and sex life at home with a beautiful, sexy and emotionally supportive wife.
This blissful domestic set up leaves you wanting for nothing more as you are fulfilled spiritually and satisfied sexually....

Until the hot younger new girl at work let's it known she finds you very appealing for an older guy and her eyes tell you she has a one off sex hook-up in mind.
No matter how much you resist, these things have a momentum all their own.

A true test of character awaits...
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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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blackg wrote:
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Ahhhh, the naivety of youth. Let my tell ya...

You can have the perfect marriage and sex life at home with a beautiful, sexy and emotionally supportive wife.
This blissful domestic set up leaves you wanting for nothing more as you are fulfilled spiritually and satisfied sexually....

Until the hot younger new girl at work let's it known she finds you very appealing for an older guy and her eyes tell you she has a one off sex hook-up in mind.
No matter how much you resist, these things have a momentum all their own.

A true test of character awaits...
She'd have to look like the woman in your pic for me to give in to the temptation, and it's very unlikely such an attractive female would ever find me appealing. But seriously, do you really find her attractive? Isn't that a cope? How do you pull it off, did you have to learn it?

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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

Post by Rudiger » 8 months ago

blackg wrote:
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Ahhhh, the naivety of youth. Let my tell ya...

You can have the perfect marriage and sex life at home with a beautiful, sexy and emotionally supportive wife.
This blissful domestic set up leaves you wanting for nothing more as you are fulfilled spiritually and satisfied sexually....

Until the hot younger new girl at work let's it known she finds you very appealing for an older guy and her eyes tell you she has a one off sex hook-up in mind.
No matter how much you resist, these things have a momentum all their own.

A true test of character awaits...
"Let me tell ya" of course!

And you go on to describe a very long term relationship with a sexy woman which you've never had and then the more recent temptation from prime young pussy you've also never had.

And no weighing 150 kilos is not prime young pussy.

Thanks for the invaluable contribution as ever.
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Rudiger wrote:
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"Let me tell ya" of course!

And you go on to describe a very long term relationship with a sexy woman which you've never had and then the more recent temptation from prime young pussy you've also never had.

And no weighing 150 kilos is not prime young pussy.

Thanks for the invaluable contribution as ever.
Lol!! Classic Rudi!

I'm drinking with my two friends at the moment and they are wondering what the hell is so funny on my phone.
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She'd have to look like the woman in your pic for me to give in to the temptation, and it's very unlikely such an attractive female would ever find me appealing.
She's the hot young thing at work.

Speaking of which... I better take her photo down.
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blackg wrote:
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She's the hot young thing at work.

Speaking of which... I better take her photo down.
Can I use her/his/it picture for a Tinder experiment?

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Can I use her/his/it picture for a Tinder experiment?
I'll ask her tomorrow.
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Can I use her/his/it picture for a Tinder experiment?
I know what you are thinking (she will do far better than a male 6), but now that I’ve liked every single female I get the odd “Oh, this app does work after all!” by 1s or 2s, so don’t be mistaken, dating is tough as hell for women, too…

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Re: When the girl seems to change her mind on a whim

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Arjen wrote:
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I know what you are thinking (she will do far better than a male 6), but now that I’ve liked every single female I get the odd “Oh, this app does work after all!” by 1s or 2s, so don’t be mistaken, dating is tough as hell for women, too…

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