This kind of sums up what's wrong with dating.
There are guys who are super attractive and instead of settling for a 9 they just keep dating 4-7 for fun.
The 4-7 girls are super unhappy being dumped all the time (that's where the "no ons" paranoia on tinder comes from). The 9 girls remain single. And the rest of the guys just dates down until the 20% sediment of incels remain.
From the article:
These guys, your average Joes, are finding it harder to date than ever before because of the simple fact that the captain of the football team is on his fifth date this week.
https://www.sortalexout.com/writing/201 ... arsh-truth
Touching this topic first of all I realize that I have a luxury problem, compared to many of my fellow hairloss sufferers. I hope I am not offending anyone and apologize if I do.
With my sizeable regimen I have stabilized and regrown my hair and am for all intends and purposes a nw 1.
I have only slight sides (watery sperm) and have reduced my finasteride dose. At the same time I have established myself in my creative job, have a great flat in a great city and even though I'm just 5.8 and 63kg, I get some attention from hot girls.
I only had long relationships in the past and feel very insecure going into another one. Especially because hair loss has left it's marks. Ironically girls keep complimenting on my hair, which gives me each time a slight panic attack as the hair would just evaporate without meds.
To build my confidence and to be less of a nice guy I would honestly like to fuck around a bit. But if I do I feel like I'm part of the problem. I feel guilty towards the girls to the point that I don't want to sleep with them at all.
Again I hope I am not offending anyone with the personal part of the topic. Somehow dating is fucked in that all the girls attention is cumulated at the top 20%.
Even though I'm far from those 20% I get a lot of attention lately from girls. One one hand I dread this attention because dating is so skewed right now. I don't want to be pest of the problem. On the other hand I feel like I'm wasting my life punishing myself for an injustice I have no influence on.