Re: Dating within your league and genuine/raw attraction
Posted: Sat Sep 01, 2018 2:10 pm
I have had the occasionsal woman interested in me who I‘d say „look great from behind“: often quite tall (while I‘mHairblues wrote: ↑Sat Sep 01, 2018 1:44 pmWhat country are you from? This seems to be a factor in what people consider average. I think people who travel a lot also may factor in.
I think most men are happy with sex appeal to varying degrees. But a few really want elevated ‘beauty’.
Did your exes have sex appeal? Like did your friends think them attractive? Did you ever notice other men check them out even casually?
This is good way I think to know if they are attractive and your have an elevated standard or not.
Also I’m always curious, do you have a high sex drive? I think this also sometimes biologically effects how attractive men find women. Like I think certain things will trigger an attraction easier than if lower or maybe even a normal sex drive.
This is why I think most women are pickier our sex drives work a bit different. We can go long periods without sex and be satisfied with occasional masterbation. Of
Course some women have super high sex drives BUT I also know with some of these women their are other things going on and I sometimes question the super high sex drive vs using sex to deal or cope with something. Maybe validation I don't know for sure.
only average height), slim, fit, good hair - women that some men surely found and find attractive. But I personally didn‘t find their faces appealing enough. I like really cute girls, and I even prefer if they are short or average height. In my opinion, they are in highest demand, as face is still the main factor for everybody, so I deduct that they - unlike the women described - are above my paygrade and that is the reason they do not like me back (very simply put). Would you (or anybody) agree or is my subjective taste too influential here?