justin wrote: ↑
1 year ago
I don't get it. I have better pics than ever yet I've been getting less matches than ever before, even my bald days haha. Either Tinder ghostbanned my account or the girls in area aren't using the app anymore.
At this point I think both our expectations are broken as well as the tinder algorithm.
If you want one date per week you need one match. Actually you need like 5 or 10 because you loose a lot during the texting process. Because they get distracted by chad or whatever.
Still more than two matches a day is just not necessary.
Also tinder creates a score for you, that slowly grows. Girls swype much less than guys, so your score matters a lot because you need to be on top of the stack.
Getting matches is not enough for good score. Tinder records how much telephone numbers or full names you get and I suspect it even checks if two people meet based on location data. Tinder wants the girls to enjoy and use the app so it scores guys high that are good entertainers and actually meet the girls.
The only way of doing that is to do a lot of platonic dating (so without fucking) or to have lots of one night stands.
I did the platonic thing, because I made a lot of friends with tinder and both my matches and the quality of girls I see on tinder improved a lot.
With the same pictures my account went from 5 matches a week to 5 matches a day. And I don't see any chubby girls anymore.
Tinder gives to those who have. 5 matches a week is probably more than you have time to date if you max out your flirting skills.