At least they appear content with itEvilLocks wrote: ↑2 weeks ago 5 guys. 3 boyfriends, 1 guy that I dated on and off for years (like I stated many times before), 1 guy that I dated briefly for a few weeks before I got in my current relationship, and a one night stand I had in college. I figured out after this that one night stands aren't for me, I don't get much pleasure out of a drunken one-night affair with someone I barely know or even like.
These 5 are the men I have had sex with, including what you said. But I have kissed more guys, I used to be a little bit of a tease before and could fool around (kiss) guys I wasn't going to actually have sex with.
Sex is something very personal to me, and I do not get anything positive out of it unless I am in love with the person or at least can picture myself falling in love with them. Sex is much more fun when you know each other, what you like/don't like etc.
I have a few friends who's had many one night stands and they are completely content with it, not ruined like @Pat claims.
I also have friends (peers) who's been with 1 guy their entire life, one of my friends got with her bf at 17 and they are still together.
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Yea the behavior as a whole hurts society but not personally. And i disagreed with ur earlier statement about how most women are sluts. I think a decent amount are but nowhere near most. I think lying and hypocrisy and vanity and superficiality are bigger problems among womenPat wrote: ↑2 weeks ago Passive aggressive non response
We agree for the most part, but I don't think I'm preaching to the choir from the other responses I'm getting. Do you disagree with my previous post? Maybe it became too convoluted because of all the reading material I had to include for @blackg . But in summary slutty behaviour results in unhappy marriages/divorces, single motherhood which results in criminal children, STDs, government money spent, men ending up forever alone and NEET, depressed childless post wall women, to name a few. I'd argue this is hurting someone.
There are people who smoke their entire life and stil llive to be a 100. But in the same way your slutty friends might be content in their life and let's even assume they'll continue to be so, they're a mere anecdote. On average slutty hedonistic behaviour will result in a temporary high, but it will make a negative impact on their own life and others overalll, just like smoking a cigarette.
The difference most smokers today are aware of the negative impact the smoking will have on their life, but they justify it by liking it so much or being addicted. Whereas the sluts believe this won't affect them negatively, and are often even encouraged by people like you.
Like women dont seem to enjoy or care about much beyond social status and looks and being all disneyfied and pretending the world is innocent. Like im a nerd and i notice even nerdy women still display these attributes. The stuff they like still shows their female nature. They like anime just because the prettyboy guys, or lord of the rings because of the prettyboy elves and their fashion. They also tend to like disney of course because hot people. Extremely rare to find a girl into things that have nothing to do with being hot, like gritty 80s sci fi or crime movies or whatever.
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You always try to appear all tough lol. Why? Womens social status doesnt increase from being tough